With Who Do You Spend Most of Your Time??
Have you ever thought of giving up overvalue the non-permanent things in your life? What about disappointment caused by overvaluing in long term? I think it may be easier to remember when did you ask the second question… Since we ask questions when something happened…
However, now let’s talk when everything is fine, when there is not disappointment yet…
Timing is important at every step of life. Being at the right moment, with the right people in the right place… We have a great variable to manage this concept, time… Time is given everybody fairly in my opinion so it is one of the greatest points for being optimistic at every corner life.
The practical information I shared about time management before can be read simultaneously with this post. In this article, I will talk a little more about why we should really manage time. The time given to all of us is limited. We know its beginning but we don’t know the end. Isn’t that what makes something valuable anyway…
Transforming your moments
We are able to transform our moments into earning or spending money, self-growth, entertainment, and etc. It should be called the greatest and the fairest budget that we spend on whatever we choose, no? If its answer is “No” for you, please do a pre-mortem analysis for your current condition…
Let me share with you how I started to changing the concept of moment for myself.
Changes start when you have pain
The side businesses and freelance working conditions in my studying time period provided me to understand the value of time. Especially the time I spend on work. The nature of this kind of works actually based on how you manage your time. If you manage really well, you will be more hungry for the following customer, and at the end of the day, you will have more money and experience. If you have a lack of time and you need to earn money, you will probably have stress issue… It is dangerous for the health system. However, until the threshold, it is a trigger mechanism to take the risk and accomplish the task. If you don’t do it, your pain increases until you change your path. I like the mechanism of how the brain releases the stress in explosion moments sometimes with getting annoyed, sometimes laughing, sometimes crying. No matter which condition you have, for sure it is time to change. These moments are the milestones for changing.
From Pain to Awareness
When I graduated from university, I recognized that studying efficiently and learning enough theory and using it in practical conditions were the main reasons for getting my degree one year earlier. At the same time, for my master’s degree, it provided me the self-esteem to work full time and being a part-time student.
It also shaped my social life. All we have some criteria to create our close environment, right? One important factor for me is to see that the person is aware of the value of her time or not. If she gives value to her time, she will also give value to your time. Isn’t it very nice even when you dream to have a friend like this…? 😉 I had to disconnect with some people because I couldn’t find this point after spending effort to catch.
I don’t know it is good or not but I feel I have to give a report to myself for each moment that I spend. What did I do? Why did I do? This perspective sometimes caused me to be stressed, sometimes being depressed but every time I had a chance to transform these moments to new starts…
Well… What about you? What do you need to actualize your transformation…?
As I mentioned above, the environment is really effective but you may not have such people close to you yet. When you start to seek individually, life helps you create the environment you need, because you try to change your lifestyle mentally and selectivity in perception comes into play. Things, behaviors perceived by you in your daily life are changing and you are aware of the new things.
Awareness of new things will cause new awareness and the circle will expand gradually. the process will become easier. Those looking for it could be boring and even painful but are those who find it.
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